Yet another busy Saturday night. I walk over to an elegant woman of distinction, whose
favors I always seem to be in, with her granddaughter to my left.
They both have the look. The look I see over and over and over and
twice as much on Saturday.
Amateur night at the Apollo so to speak .
How to delicately explain we aren't a northern or
southern Italian restaurant. We don't have any veal scallopini or
chicken parmigiana, two dishes I adore and don't smite anyone for looking for, mind you. But thats not what we do here.
Its my job to be an
ambassador our menu's culinary genius which uses all the flavors
Italy has to offer from the very north to the southern shores of Sicily
and how they play with the local seasonal fare and the traditions
of Italy.
Back to the look.
The woman, who was
making her yearly pilgrimage to her collegiate granddaughter, had the look and she had it hard. What she needed asap is to be comforted and
reassured that this menu (which must have seemed as foreign as Arabic because
the items are written in Italian boldly and the English description are below in a small and light font)has exactly what they need to
bring them to another place. A culinary vacation is here for all to enjoy,
now, if they just sit back and follow my lead.
It starts with the eyes and
soft approach. Eye contact, a slow blink and reassuring 'yes' nod reels
her in. This night our lady has forgotten her glasses at the hotel.
Perfect for me. Some would go search for readers at the hostess
station and let her sit there for another ten minutes of confusion
with awkward zebra or leopard printed glasses on.
This is my time to
strike with precision and ask what her pleasure would be tonight.
Even though I know she's a beet salad and fish lady I go through with
some other options verbally first.
Here is where this textbook
approach took a turn to another place all together.
I get to my
favorite meat dish the quail. De-boned breast stuffed with mozzarella
herbs breadcrumbs swiss chard and wrapped in panchetta. The legs
lolipopped and glazed with a touch of marsala over a parsnip vanilla
puree and salsify roasted on top. All of the tings that make quail
an annoyance to eat ,the bones, are taken out of the equation making
this dish a delightfully fun and an uninterrupted joy.
Now Ive been known to be a
touch dramatic and long winded at times with my descriptions but all
for the pleasure of the guest.
Tears were not something I expected.
The woman was in full on water works. Sobbing quietly not to be so
embarrassed but also not being able to stop. She grabbed my arm
whilst crying trying to apologize for the tears. If there is one
thing in life we should never apologize for are our tears. I see them
as a gift and a channel for growth. So I immediately let her know
there is probably not a better persons shoulder to be crying on in
all of Manhattan than mine. Let her cry I did. I assured the girl not
to be embarrassed of her grand mother's tears and that everyone is
pretty much oblivious to anything thats not in a 2 foot radius to
them on a Saturday night. Even sometimes to my dismay, me their
captain trying to take their order.
The woman quelled her tears
to tell me her husband loved quail. He hunted it his whole life, he
recently passed and left her alone and sad. He would have enjoyed my
description and she was positive that's what he would be eating tonight
if he were there.
I shared with her I had just
lost my dear grandmother months prior. I use this food as my
connection to her. When chef makes a pasta con le sarde. A tradtional
Sicilian dish. It takes me back to her kitchen and me piling the
extra fried breadcrumbs on top with a table of family and friends who
have long passed or moved away. To a simpler time when life was
fuller than we possibly knew. Because only through loss do we see it.
It brings me to a joyous place now with every bite and I hold my
grandmother with me in my heart. Thats how lucky we are to have had
them. That we have these foods to enjoy their memory can be so
fulfilling.She grabbed my arm again and
asked if she could pray over me as the granddaughters eyes rolled.
She said "Lord keep your blessing over Anthony and all that he does
this year and protect him from evil and other such things..."
Not forgetting I have a job
to do that she was keeping me from she says with enlightened grace
and charm,
“We'll share the Beet salad and the Branzino”. Can I
pick 'em or what?
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